人往往会忘了记录自己幸福的时刻，

所以尽管有些小磨擦，

我还是要记录这一刻，

我是幸福的。

这一刻

我流下了泪

因为不管我怎么为你遍体鳞伤

你想着的却是当初的应不应该

P.S. i've started to turn indifferent towards the words you used on me cos you have apologised so many times but yet repeat those harsh words as many times too. tell me bout it, why should i deserve this.

祝我25岁生日快乐感言。

很快地，时间把我推向了人生的另一个阶段，

这25年里，还有多少人留在我身边？

还有多少人已离我而去？

曾经因为离别而痛苦，

因为痛苦而害怕，

害怕诺言多次被违背的痛，

害怕不再是他人的知己，

害怕深爱的人转身而去。

但在发现生命中有太多让我们无能为力的时刻时，

才发现时间已一去不回。

还是会害怕，

毕竟生活中还存在太多的未知数。

但昨晚，

我在serene 的博客中看到了这么一句话，

“someone once told me, every song has an ending.
but is that any reason not to enjoy the music?"

与其去害怕或抱怨，

不如去珍惜、去接受，

因为我希望未来再转过身看看过去，

可以看到的是少一点失去，多一点珍惜。

谢谢那些记得我生日的朋友，

还有，当然为我的礼物烦恼不少的Miss L，

谢谢你。

yesterday we went to check out this new place @ boon tat street call Vanilla Bar & Cafe.

a very good place to chill out,

n its signature dishes are sandwiches.

we tried its salmon sandwich n warm chocolate cake.

not too bad and the settings' kinda homely.

so if u're around club street area n looking for a nice place to chill out.

drop by this place. you wont regret it. :)

my first bday cake for this yr.

realised as u get older (hate to say this word),

you dont fancy that much bout cakes anymore,

but nevertheless, it's always nice to hav frens to spend tots on ur bday,

so i wanna thank amie, kit, cindy, weiting and shan for celebrating it for me.. :)

and yup though not alot of ppl read my blog, but i wanna say thanks to all those who sent me a bday msg thru

sms or facebook.

last but not least,

thank you for being there for me.

这一幕， 我忘不了。

因为感动了我。

经文上是这么写着，

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ”

爱， 似乎在文字中才显得那么简单易懂，

但不同的是，

纸上的文字不会如人的思想般不断改变。

I've always believe that,

promises should never be just said,

but also to carry it out.

在新娘新郎步上红地毯，

在一片祝福掌声中走向对彼此许下誓言的途中，

我的脑海里漂浮着画面，

一些我目前只能向往的画面。

牧师的一段话让我记忆犹新，

" love is like an amazing race,

it's easy to clear the first few points,

but when things get tougher,

those written on the script will start to be questioned.

it's not bout running faster or be tougher than ur other half,

what matter most,

is to reach each point together."

能够在一起的每一天原本就不容易，

但日子久了，却往往在理所当然中淡忘。

甚至忘了找到一个爱你的人不是一种应该，

而是一种福气.

希望这对夫妻能白头偕老，

祝福他们。

anyway recently Miss L intro me a song which the lyrics kinda caught my attention,

"You got something to say?
Say it to me,
not everyone else.
You say that I’m to blame,
my words are in vain.
Don't go fooling yourself.

There’s a little black box, yeah,
somewhere in the ocean,
holding all the truth about us.
It’s a little black box,
a record of emotion,
everything that ever was.

You may deny it, deny it,
but when I find it, find it,
I’m gonna play it aloud to the world."

~Black Box

from a stage of giving u the patience to listen,

to a point where i cant take in another word from u.

i wish for that understanding too..

n like a child,

when my words cant be understood or listened,

i've decided not to speak.

i'm only human,

n not everything's within my control.